I was allways taught to see the good in people, give them the benefit of the doubt and be honest.
5 years of dating only to find out hes been seeing his exgirlfriend all the time and even though they are now in business together he is still contacting me. I have only just found all this out and have discontinued the relationship.
Question is, what makes a person like this tick as I cant get my head around it.
He came to a weekend wedding with me a few months ago before I found out. Go figure.
Last reply: 21st Feb 2012 /
5 replies /
Post by Cassa
It sounds to me like he wants his cake and eat it too, you should break off contact with him altogether he is not worth it.
He was not meant for you but I'm sure that there is someone special waiting out there just for you so just be patient. Reply
Posted by: pet
Posted: 21st Oct 2011
He seems to me to be very insecure, unsure of himself and what he wants, hurting others is part of his attention seeking. There is a name for men like him... judas. Do the right thing stay clear of him you will find Mr right out there in time, but make sure you study him before you except him goodluck Cassa and all the best for you and your new love. Reply
Posted by: crocdundee
Posted: 27th Oct 2011
Cassa your best idea is to drop him like a ton of bricks and start again there are plenty more fish in the sea and this is just a learning curve you go through and i should know having had 3 engagements and am on my third marriage.Its been a hard way to find love and a good partner but every time you gain experience and learn to look for signs that tell you some thing is wrong in a relationship Reply
Posted by: yakuza3355
Posted: 18th Feb 2012
Try not to let this experience taint you.
REMEMBER, everything happens for
a reason....maybe that reason
could be to work out why many
people behave in that manner or any
other thousands of reasons.
And, remember what you were
taught and stay true to yourself.
I wish you all the best and good
luck in your life... Reply
Posted by: Leeming
Posted: 21st Feb 2012
hes was a dishonest person 2 you....i say thats the 1 that u left him cause theres plenty more honest fish in the sea.....dont dwell your sadness of loss ova him.....put your head up high an enjoy life cause u will come across a good man 1day. Reply
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