chilvary
Posted by: david
29th Apr 2010 06:22pm
have the days of chivalry gone.i still like to open doors for ladies or stand on puvblic transport for ladies.but some women object to this since womens lib has been introduced.what do you think.david
Bellxchat
- 17th Nov 2010 10:46am
Ollie, just to get away completely from manners...I've been hearing and reading a lot lately about our sub-conscious minds, and how our beliefs (true or not) shape our lives. Was it Mark Twain who said, "if you think you can, or you think you can't, you're right" ? I notice you say you're "not as confident...", "panic more easily".."this will only worsen with age". Think of your sub-conscious as a "yes-man", it says "yes" to all you say - "I am confident" (yes); "I am not confident" (yes);"I can do this" (yes); "I can't do this" (yes) - you can choose what you say to yourself (aloud or not) and you'll always get a "yes".
And back to manners: we can only do what we know to do, so keep up your good manners and good reactions, and it can only rub-off in a positive way.
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